Dirty Talk: How To Get More Comfortable With This Sexual Practice

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Dirty talk during lockdown isn’t just for established couples who are suddenly long-distance because they can’t quarantine at home together, though. It’s also an ideal step for those developing virtual relationships during the pandemic. Lesbian romance stories brought to you as an immersive podcast. Created to make you smile, blush or keep you on the edge of your seat.

• An offer of a drink to thank her on the last day of the job is one she readily accepts.
• They execute realistic sex positions that normal, sexual non-Olympians are capable of performing.
• Present-tense narration is a simple and surprisingly powerful way to transform language into a sort of vibrator for your mind, enhancing whatever you and your partner are already enjoying.
• ICYMI, sending your lover a spicy text—better known as a sext—isn’t just something for LDRs.

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There’s nothing wrong with a little dirty talk, especially if it’s in the privacy of your bedroom with your partner. Well, Horn says, the pandemic is a perfect breeding ground to talk out those fantasies, since it’s a way to embrace all the things that are now forbidden or dangerous. With words, you can get off on the taboo of having sex with a stranger or in a park or on the beach in the midst of an outbreak — all while never endangering public health. “Remember that words we hate in a non-sexual context take on a whole different meaning and feeling in sexual relationships,” says Horn.

• Describe as vividly as you can what’s going on in your own words, zeroing in on exactly what is getting you off.
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• Knowing what excites each other and the limits sets a comfortable and healthy foundation,” she suggests.
• Again, taking note of what’s off-limits is as important as writing down what you like.
• I spoke with a few about their experiences and found the feedback fascinating and helpful.

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“Part of the thrill is using sort of edgy, boundary-pushing epithets that we can reclaim through sex.” When it comes to advanced dirty talk, Horn suggests that you, “really see yourself as a storyteller, a creative person exercising a skill.” If your partner is using words or phrases that don’t work for you, be gentle in how you let them know. Pay attention to the words and phrases your partner is using and adopt them if you’re comfortable. You can share each other’s word banks or just incorporate what’s affirming versus what’s off-limits into natural conversation. “One of the most important basics is understanding what words you like to describe all the parts of your body, as well as your partner’s,” says Horn.

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Seduction can begin weeks before over text, and lead right up to a teasing moment of foreplay, stating your designs on your partner’s body. Present-tense narration is a simple and surprisingly powerful way to transform language into a sort of vibrator for your mind, enhancing whatever you and your partner are already enjoying. And the check-in is a way to get more mileage out of your awesome sex by sending an aftercare reminder, bringing you back into the moment with the simplest sentence. In sex as in the rest of life, everyone loves to be flattered.

And yet, the list of movies who’ve accomplished the same feat is painfully abbreviated. Don’t talk to me about Blue is the Warmest Color, a movie made famous for its extended, impractical sex scenes and allegations of harassment by its director, Abdellatif Kechiche. Kechiche reportedly bullied the two female protagonists as well as his staff, forcing them to work 16-hour workdays under extreme pressure. Critics further accused the director of creating “voyeuristic” sex scenes intended to solicit the male gaze. I was recently re-watching some porn DVDs from my collection when I realized I had forgotten how on point superstar Sasha Grey’s dirty talk always is.